The last day I was in Malaysia, Ben and Margaret took me to the Mari-Mari Cultural Village in Kota Kinabalu. Mari-Mari means "come, come," and our guide Felix kept telling us to mari-mari as we moved from one village to the next. I'm pretty sure that's why it is called mari-mari, and not because a group of people is named Mari-Mari. It is a great place to visit. It is a smaller version of the Polynesian Cultural Center. We went to five different tribes of Borneo to see how they lived a long time ago.
That's our guide Felix making rice wine.
At every village we got to do or make something. We are making dinner in a bamboo tube.
This tribe had a marriage tent in the village.
Everyone likes the Murut tribe the best, the head hunters. As we approached their village, they came out to meet us.
We practiced our blow gun skills trying to get a poisonous dart in the target. It was harder than it looks. In this tribe they needed a human head before any wedding to prove that the groom could take care of his family.
This is an old fashioned trampoline that they jump on to pull down prizes, heads maybe?
We got to jump on the trampoline too.
In every tribe, they have a room for their unmarried daughters in their huts. It is the high room in this picture. She would have to climb up that pole to get into bed each night so she was safe from the enemy. We wondered what she did if she had to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night.
After visiting the five tribes, we went to their performance.
I got to dance with them at the end.
They fed us after the performance. The stuff that looks like salad is very bitter so I didn't eat it, and there is also a fried salted fish that I didn't eat.
What an amazing experience to go somewhere so different from the world I know. I'm so grateful I got to see so many things. Thank you, Ben and Margaret!





















